why opposite sex alway treated like objects and toys why we consider frist as human afterwards observe in any perception

 why opposite sex alway treated like objects and toys why we consider frist as human afterwards  observe in any perception 

Sex education and intimacy literacy are still treated as taboo in many developing societies. But silence doesn’t create morality — it creates confusion, repression, and sometimes dangerous behavior.

When people grow up sex-deprived, uninformed, and emotionally uneducated about relationships, they often develop a dual personality paradox

Publicly moral, privately struggling with suppressed desires.

Then sex and opposite gender treat as only sex objects or toys and emotion not had valuable 

This gap between desire, guilt, and ignorance can lead to exploitation, harassment, or even sexual crimes.

Sex is not a sin.

Ignorance about intimacy is the real danger.

Societies that normalize healthy relationship literacy, consent, and emotional intimacy build safer communities.

PART 2 — The Truth About Sex & True Love

Many societies treat sex like a sin but from a biological and psychological perspective, it is a basic human need,just like food, water, and air

But here is the important truth most people never learn:

Sex can start attraction…

but it does NOT guarantee true love.

True love requires emotional maturity, trust, respect, and psychological compatibility.

Unfortunately, many young people—especially in India—grow up with zero relationship literacy.

• Girls are rarely educated clearly about intimacy.

• Boys learn from porn, myths, or friends.

• Schools skip the reproductive biology chapter as “not important for exams”.

But the real question is:

If it’s not important for exams…

why is it so important for LIFE?

Because when scientific knowledge is missing,quacks, superstition, and misinformation take its place.

And then young people suffer with:

* guilt

* confusion

* impulsive behavior

* exploitation

The principle is simple:

When you are hungry, you eat food responsibly.

You don’t destroy food in impulsive behavior.

Sex should be understood the same way:

✔ Learn scientific literacy

✔ Understand emotional maturity

✔ Respect consent

✔ Don’t confuse body needs with true love

Because true love is psychological and soulful — not just biological

— Kotarjpawan

International Relationship Expert & Psychologist

Founder, TrueLove18Club International

#SexEducation #RelationshipLiteracy #ConsentMatters #HealthyRelationships #SexualPsychology #India

 #MentalHealth #SocialAwareness #PsychologyTalk #TrueLove18Club

Most psychologist behaves like idiot all times. By Kotarjpawan

 

Most psychologist behaves like idiot all times.
And insult science and spirituality.....
Why am I said this read this full post.

As a young international relationship psychologist, I often observe a painful reality.

Many people approach psychologists during the most vulnerable phase of their lives. At that moment they need guidance, emotional safety, and practical solutions.
Unfortunately, some professionals stop only at explaining theories — hormones, habits, neurotransmitters, or behavioral patterns — and the conversation ends there.

When science stops at explanation but does not guide healing, people start searching elsewhere.

This is the exact moment when superstition enters. Suddenly someone says:
“Stop eating mangoes and your problem will disappear.”
“Do this ritual and your relationship will be saved.”

And because human beings are emotionally fragile during crisis, they begin to believe blindly.

Yes, sometimes 2–3 out of 10 cases improve, but often those were mild situations that might have improved with time anyway. Yet the success is credited to superstition, not to natural recovery or proper psychological care.

This is where science loses its voice.

I strongly believe psychology must not stop at explanation — it must continue toward transformation.

That belief is the foundation behind TrueLove18Club International.

It is not designed as a traditional counselling space. It is a wellness ecosystem where:

• Feelings are respected
• Science is explained clearly
• Practical solutions are provided
• Continuous emotional support is available
• People are guided from their first step of healing to the final stage of self-empowerment

My mission is simple:

Destroy superstition.
Strengthen scientific thinking.
And combine science with true spirituality.

Because real spirituality does not reject science — it deepens human awareness.

For me, relationship psychology is not just a profession.

I dedicate 14 hours every day studying, observing, and understanding human emotions and relationship dynamics. Creating smiles, restoring dignity, and helping people feel like the king or queen of their own life is not my job.

It is my true satisfaction and life purpose.

— Kotarjpawan
International Relationship Psychologist
Founder, TrueLove18Club International

#RelationshipPsychology #MentalHealthAwareness #ScienceOverSuperstition #TrueLove18Club #EmotionalWellness #PsychologyMatters #HumanConnections #RelationshipLiteracy #truelove18club
#kotarjpawan

Official Announcement STGCMI18 Foundation NGO Becomes Welfare Subsidiary of TrueLove18Club International by Kotarjpawan

 

Official Announcement

 STGCMI18 Foundation NGO Becomes Welfare Subsidiary of TrueLove18Club International

In a significant step toward expanding social impact and structured welfare work, STGCMI18 Foundation (save the girl child movement india)has been officially announced as the welfare subsidiary organization of TrueLove18Club International,founded by international relationship expert psychologist Kotarjpawan.

This announcement marks a new chapter in the mission to combine relationship wellness, social responsibility, and humanitarian service under one unified ecosystem. While TrueLove18Club International continues to focus on emotional wellness, relationship education, and global community building, STGCMI18 Foundation will lead all welfare initiatives, CSR activities, and grassroots social development programs.

From14 Feb 2017 to Vision Behind the Initiative

According to founder Kotarjpawan, the vision behind establishing the STGCMI18 Foundation as a dedicated welfare wing is to ensure that social impact work is organized, transparent, and scalable.

Modern society faces complex challenges ranging from relationship breakdowns and mental health issues to gender inequality and lack of educational opportunities. Through this new structure, TrueLove18Club International aims to address these challenges in a systematic and mission-driven way.

The foundation will serve as the official platform for all charitable, humanitarian, and corporate social responsibility (CSR) collaborations.

Key Areas of Welfare Work

Based on the official campaign poster and the foundation’s guiding philosophy, STGCMI18 Foundation will focus on several major social causes:

 1. Education for Everyone

Access to education remains one of the most powerful tools for social transformation. The foundation will promote inclusive learning opportunities for youth and underprivileged communities, ensuring knowledge and skills reach those who need them most.

 2. Save the Girl Child Movement

Gender equality remains a critical issue in many parts of society. STGCMI18 Foundation will actively support campaigns that protect the rights, safety, and dignity of girls, while promoting awareness against harmful practices such as female foeticide.

 3. Ending Child Marriage

Child marriage continues to affect the lives of millions of young girls globally. The foundation will collaborate with social organizations and communities to raise awareness and advocate for the elimination of child marriages.

 4. Equal Rights, Pay, and Work

Economic independence and workplace equality are essential for building balanced societies. STGCMI18 Foundation supports equal opportunities, fair wages, and respect for women's professional contributions.

 5. Youth Parenting Awareness Programs

Through initiatives like “Youth Let’s Talk Parenting”, the organization plans to create conversations about **healthy parenting, emotional intelligence, and responsible family relationships.

Role of TrueLove18Club International

TrueLove18Club International will continue to function as a global relationship and emotional wellness community, offering:

* Relationship education

* Emotional wellness awareness

* Social dialogue through podcasts and seminars

* Community engagement initiatives

Its popular platform, including the Love Talk Podcast by Kotarjpawan, will also help amplify the foundation’s welfare campaigns by bringing social issues into public conversation.

-A Model for Integrated Social Impact

The creation of STGCMI18 Foundation represents a modern NGO structure where social awareness, psychology, and humanitarian service work together.

By separating welfare initiatives into a dedicated foundation, the organization ensures:

* Better accountability in CSR activities

* Stronger partnerships with institutions and donors

* Greater focus on measurable social outcomes

This integrated approach reflects the belief that healthy relationships and a healthy society are deeply interconnected.

Message from the Founder

Founder Kotarjpawan emphasized that the initiative is not only about charity but about creating a sustainable social movement.

As Relationship psychologist He believes that when emotional wellness, gender equality, and education come together, societies become stronger, more compassionate, and more progressive.

Looking Ahead

With the official recognition of STGCMI18 Foundation as the welfare subsidiary of TrueLove18Club International, the organization is preparing to expand its outreach programs, awareness campaigns, and collaborative CSR projects both nationally and internationally.

The foundation invites youth, volunteers, interns,educators, organizations, and socially conscious individuals to join the mission of building a more equitable and emotionally healthy society.

Official Campaign Message:

Support the movement for education, equality, and the protection of the girl child.

Join the initiative and become part of the change.

Psychologist vs Psychiatrist: What’s the Difference?

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Psychologist vs Psychiatrist: What’s the Difference?

Many people confuse these roles, but they serve different purposes in mental health care.

Psychologist

A psychologist focuses on psychotherapy (talk therapy), emotional healing, behavioral change, and psychological assessment. They help people manage stress, trauma, relationships, and mental health through scientific counseling methods.

Psychiatrist

A psychiatrist is a medical doctor (MBBS + MD,DMPsychiatry specialization) who can diagnose mental disorders and provide psychopharmacology treatment — meaning they can prescribe medications for conditions like depression, anxiety, bipolar disorder, or schizophrenia.

In simple words:

💊 Psychiatrist = Medication treatment

🗣 Psychologist = Therapy and behavioral healing

Both work together to support mental well-being and emotional balance.

— Kotarjpawan

International Relationship Expert Psychologist

Host of LOVETALK Podcast

Founder of TrueLove18Club International

#Psychology #MentalHealthAwareness #Psychologist #Psychiatrist #Psychotherapy #MentalHealthEducation #MindCare #EmotionalWellbeing #TrueLove18Club