why opposite sex alway treated like objects and toys why we consider frist as human afterwards observe in any perception

 why opposite sex alway treated like objects and toys why we consider frist as human afterwards  observe in any perception 

Sex education and intimacy literacy are still treated as taboo in many developing societies. But silence doesn’t create morality — it creates confusion, repression, and sometimes dangerous behavior.

When people grow up sex-deprived, uninformed, and emotionally uneducated about relationships, they often develop a dual personality paradox

Publicly moral, privately struggling with suppressed desires.

Then sex and opposite gender treat as only sex objects or toys and emotion not had valuable 

This gap between desire, guilt, and ignorance can lead to exploitation, harassment, or even sexual crimes.

Sex is not a sin.

Ignorance about intimacy is the real danger.

Societies that normalize healthy relationship literacy, consent, and emotional intimacy build safer communities.

PART 2 — The Truth About Sex & True Love

Many societies treat sex like a sin but from a biological and psychological perspective, it is a basic human need,just like food, water, and air

But here is the important truth most people never learn:

Sex can start attraction…

but it does NOT guarantee true love.

True love requires emotional maturity, trust, respect, and psychological compatibility.

Unfortunately, many young people—especially in India—grow up with zero relationship literacy.

• Girls are rarely educated clearly about intimacy.

• Boys learn from porn, myths, or friends.

• Schools skip the reproductive biology chapter as “not important for exams”.

But the real question is:

If it’s not important for exams…

why is it so important for LIFE?

Because when scientific knowledge is missing,quacks, superstition, and misinformation take its place.

And then young people suffer with:

* guilt

* confusion

* impulsive behavior

* exploitation

The principle is simple:

When you are hungry, you eat food responsibly.

You don’t destroy food in impulsive behavior.

Sex should be understood the same way:

✔ Learn scientific literacy

✔ Understand emotional maturity

✔ Respect consent

✔ Don’t confuse body needs with true love

Because true love is psychological and soulful — not just biological

— Kotarjpawan

International Relationship Expert & Psychologist

Founder, TrueLove18Club International

#SexEducation #RelationshipLiteracy #ConsentMatters #HealthyRelationships #SexualPsychology #India

 #MentalHealth #SocialAwareness #PsychologyTalk #TrueLove18Club

Most psychologist behaves like idiot all times. By Kotarjpawan

 

Most psychologist behaves like idiot all times.
And insult science and spirituality.....
Why am I said this read this full post.

As a young international relationship psychologist, I often observe a painful reality.

Many people approach psychologists during the most vulnerable phase of their lives. At that moment they need guidance, emotional safety, and practical solutions.
Unfortunately, some professionals stop only at explaining theories — hormones, habits, neurotransmitters, or behavioral patterns — and the conversation ends there.

When science stops at explanation but does not guide healing, people start searching elsewhere.

This is the exact moment when superstition enters. Suddenly someone says:
“Stop eating mangoes and your problem will disappear.”
“Do this ritual and your relationship will be saved.”

And because human beings are emotionally fragile during crisis, they begin to believe blindly.

Yes, sometimes 2–3 out of 10 cases improve, but often those were mild situations that might have improved with time anyway. Yet the success is credited to superstition, not to natural recovery or proper psychological care.

This is where science loses its voice.

I strongly believe psychology must not stop at explanation — it must continue toward transformation.

That belief is the foundation behind TrueLove18Club International.

It is not designed as a traditional counselling space. It is a wellness ecosystem where:

• Feelings are respected
• Science is explained clearly
• Practical solutions are provided
• Continuous emotional support is available
• People are guided from their first step of healing to the final stage of self-empowerment

My mission is simple:

Destroy superstition.
Strengthen scientific thinking.
And combine science with true spirituality.

Because real spirituality does not reject science — it deepens human awareness.

For me, relationship psychology is not just a profession.

I dedicate 14 hours every day studying, observing, and understanding human emotions and relationship dynamics. Creating smiles, restoring dignity, and helping people feel like the king or queen of their own life is not my job.

It is my true satisfaction and life purpose.

— Kotarjpawan
International Relationship Psychologist
Founder, TrueLove18Club International

#RelationshipPsychology #MentalHealthAwareness #ScienceOverSuperstition #TrueLove18Club #EmotionalWellness #PsychologyMatters #HumanConnections #RelationshipLiteracy #truelove18club
#kotarjpawan